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Types of Therapy Explained: CBT, DBT, ACT, EMDR, IFS and More
A plain-English guide to the most common therapy approaches in the US, what each is best known for, and how to choose.
By Mara Ellison··3 min read
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The short version
- CBT and its relatives have the deepest research base for anxiety and depression.
- DBT teaches concrete skills for intense emotions; EMDR and trauma-focused CBT are well-studied for PTSD.
- Psychodynamic, IFS and somatic approaches work more with patterns, parts and the body.
- Fit with the therapist matters as much as the label.
Therapist profiles are full of acronyms. Here’s what the most common ones mean, in plain English.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
CBT focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviors. You learn to notice unhelpful thinking patterns (see cognitive distortions), test them against evidence and change behaviors that keep problems going. It is structured, often time-limited and has strong research support for anxiety, depression, insomnia and more.
Often includes: thought records, behavioral experiments, exposure to feared situations, homework between sessions.
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
DBT was developed by Marsha Linehan, originally for people with chronic suicidal feelings and borderline personality disorder. It balances acceptance with change and teaches four skill sets: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation and interpersonal effectiveness. Many people use DBT skills for any kind of intense emotion. Read DBT skills explained.
Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)
ACT helps you make room for difficult thoughts and feelings instead of fighting them, and to act on your values anyway. Key ideas include defusion (seeing thoughts as thoughts), acceptance and committed action.
EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)
A structured trauma therapy where you briefly focus on a traumatic memory while doing bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements. EMDR is recommended in several international PTSD treatment guidelines.
Trauma-focused CBT, CPT and prolonged exposure
These are among the most researched treatments for PTSD. Cognitive processing therapy (CPT) works on stuck beliefs after trauma; prolonged exposure helps you gradually approach memories and situations you’ve avoided.
Psychodynamic therapy
Explores how past experiences and unconscious patterns shape present feelings and relationships. It often pays close attention to the therapy relationship itself (see transference). Usually less structured, sometimes longer-term.
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
IFS views the mind as made up of “parts,” such as a critic, a people-pleaser or a hurt younger part, plus a core Self that can relate to them with curiosity and compassion. It has grown hugely popular; its research base is still developing compared with CBT.
Somatic approaches
Somatic therapies (such as somatic experiencing or sensorimotor psychotherapy) focus on body sensations, posture and nervous system states. Many trauma therapists blend somatic tools with other approaches.
Couples and family therapy
Approaches like the Gottman Method and emotionally focused therapy (EFT) work with relationship patterns rather than one person alone.
How to choose
| If you want… | You might look for… |
|---|---|
| Practical skills for anxiety or depression | CBT, ACT |
| Help with overwhelming emotions | DBT, DBT-informed therapy |
| Trauma treatment | EMDR, CPT, prolonged exposure, trauma-focused CBT |
| To understand deep, repeating patterns | Psychodynamic, IFS, schema therapy |
| Help as a couple | Gottman Method, EFT |
Whatever the label, research consistently finds the quality of the therapeutic relationship matters across approaches.
Questions people ask
Which type of therapy is best?
There is no single best type. The best approach depends on your concern, your preferences and the therapist’s skill. For specific conditions, some approaches have stronger evidence, which a clinician can explain.
Is talk therapy different from CBT?
“Talk therapy” is an umbrella term for psychotherapy in general. CBT is one specific, structured kind of talk therapy.
Written by Mara EllisonWriter behind Therapist Words and author of two self-help books. Not a licensed therapist; content is checked against professional sources. About · Editorial policy
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