Signs of Depression: More Than Feeling Sad
The emotional, physical and thinking signs of depression, how it differs from a rough patch, and when to get help.
Depression & low mood
Sadness vs. Depression: 8 Differences
Sadness is a normal emotion with a cause and an end. Depression is a health condition that colors everything and lingers.
Pattern A
Sadness
VS
Pattern B
Depression
01Cause
SadnessUsually clear
DepressionNot always clear
02Duration
SadnessHours to days
DepressionMost days for two weeks or more
03Pleasure
SadnessStill possible
DepressionOften lost
04Self-worth
SadnessIntact
DepressionOften worthlessness or guilt
05Body
SadnessMostly unaffected
DepressionSleep, appetite, energy change
06Functioning
SadnessMostly okay
DepressionOften impaired
07Comfort
SadnessHelps
DepressionMay not reach you
08Needs
SadnessTime and care
DepressionProfessional support
Why it matters
Sadness is part of being human. Depression is treatable and deserves care. If you’re not sure which you’re facing, a screener and a professional can help.
Try this
- Take the free PHQ-9 screener.
- Tell someone how long it’s been.
- If you have thoughts of suicide, call or text 988.
Education, not diagnosis. Patterns exist on a spectrum, and most people show both sides at different times.
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